Registration is optimism; reminders are the practical part
A register full of names two weeks ahead is not a room on the day. Between those two moments, ordinary life happens: someone's diary moved, a meeting landed, a link scrolled past and lost. Reminders exist for that gap, and the useful version runs itself once, then leaves you alone. Three emails go out to everyone registered at twenty-four hours, one hour and fifteen minutes before the start, and the switch that turns them off is yours.
That is the whole mechanism, and it is deliberately narrow. It sends nothing at a clever moment you invented, and it does not decide that a bigger nudge is needed. It goes to the list you already have, at the three points before the session where a person genuinely still needs to be told.